Birthday Week


So a week ago today I turned 20.
Here are some of the things I did to celebrate this week:

-Ate several Krispy Kreme donuts
-Jumped completely into the ocean at 6am
-Ate a chocolate chip waffle at Waffle House (which was a total disappointment now that they just dump the chocolate chips on top instead of baking them into the waffle)
-Went to a local book shop and sat and read books
-Bought a new book
-Sat in a comfy chair in a coffee shop and drank a gingerbread latte while journaling
-Had a scrumptious homemade dinner with my family
-Took silly pictures on photobooth
-Opened presents!
-Ate Birthday cake
-Caught up with some good friends
-Bought myself Never Say Never on DVD (I'm not obsessed, what are you talking about...)
-Ate Birthday cake for breakfast
-Bought myself Foster the People's new CD
-Read magazines in Barnes and Noble
-Celebrated Thanksgiving with loved ones
-Went on a date with the boyfriend to New York Deli and ate yummy sandwiches and used the photobooth there (the only real one I know of in Richmond)
-Bought a yo-yo
-Went to see 50/50 at the Byrd (sadly Joseph Gordon-Levitt was not there... though he is in RVA for a movie he's filming and has been seen by everyone but me it seems)
-Had a cookies and creme milk shake at Cookout
-Went roller skating (with glow sticks and Justin Bieber playing no less)
-Saw Fight Club at a midnight showing at the Byrd
-Had a cheese burger and $1 sweet tea at McDonalds (Yes, yes I do realize %87 of this list is food. Mostly junk food. I like eating ok?)
-Read outside in the grass
-Ordered the Canon T2i camera!!!!!!!! Best Birthday present to myself ever. Can't wait for it to get here!

It's been a great Birthday week!
Thanks to everyone who had a part in making my Birthday the best one yet. I love you all dearly and all the cards, phone calls, gifts, wall posts, texts, visits, and emails meant so much and I appreciate them all:)


It's Beginning To Look A Lot Like Christmas

I will confess that I am one of the people who starts listening to Christmas music long before Thanksgiving (November 5th this year to be exact). I know some people think that we should wait until after Thanksgiving and give it proper respect and all but I, needless to say, am not one of those people. I adore Christmas (I can watch Elf all year round) and it goes by quickly enough with only a month to celebrate. I'm for celebrating as soon as possible! And now that it's less than a month away, I wanted to share some of the Christmas-y goings on around here for those of you who love Christmas as much as me.

Justin Bieber's Under the Mistletoe has been on repeat. As well as She & Him's new Christmas cd and the classic Andy Williams Christmas album
Christmas cookie baking!







 Yummy holiday drinks
 Christmas decorations are going up everywhere!

And of course pretending to be reindeer.

What have you been doing to get in the Christmas mood?
Christmas is 27 days away! 

P.s. This is my 200th post. Crazy huh?

Friday I'm In Love: Local Love

Just a mini post on some goings on around here with some local bloggers and writers.
This Friday I'm in love with...

November's Capital Style

Some fun outfits to wear during Fall

A guide to mens fashion  and women's fashion

This post on work wear

This scarf

Phoenix's new store

Being featured on Dirty Richmond again!

An awesome article on local knitting related things

A gorgeous photo

A list of local black friday deals!



And of course don't forget to enter my giveaway for a chance to win a gift card to The Limited!

Also congratulations to Sydney of Chic Stripes for winning this giveaway for one of my cowls! Can't wait to see an outfit post with it.

Happy Thanksgiving


Happy Thanksgiving everyone!
I am thankful for so many things and as a rule I try to remember them more than once a year, though I will admit it is easy to take things for granted sometimes and forget the things I have. 
However I think it's nice to have a holiday to celebrate all that we're thankful for, and to remind us how blessed we are. And even if things seemingly aren't going so great there's always something to be grateful for. 
Even if it's just food on the table and a roof over our heads.
I could write for a very long time on all the things I am thankful for. In fact that's a little bit of what this blog is about, staying positive and finding happiness in every day things. 
Finding things to enjoy, even when life maybe isn't so presently enjoyable.
I have enough happiness lists to prove my attempts at that.
But since this is the time of year where we do count our blessings, and share our most loved and best, here are a few of mine:

My relationship with my savior. 
And His all encompassing ever forgiving love. 
My parents. 
For being so supportive of me and all that I do and encouraging me to pursue my dreams with everything I have. For loving me when I mess up and when I make mistakes. 
And for giving me a fantastic example of what a loving marriage looks like.
My brothers.
For putting up with their only sister and all the girly things that entails. 
And for the girly things it does not, such as playing lego and G.I. Joe's and building race tracks and playing in the creek and watching John Wayne movies. 
And for always making me laugh.
My Boyfriend.
For loving me exactly the way I am. 
For secretly learning how to knit behind my back, for watching all of our many shows, for going to every one of my craft shows with me, for having fun adventures together as big as Boston and as small as getting slurpees at 7-11.
And for loving my glasses.
My friends.
For being the crazy, wonderful, hilarious, fun, kind, supportive, ridiculous, encouraging, spontaneous, giving, caring, loving, generous, frustrating, helpful, beautiful people that they are.
My Jobs.
Being able to do all the things I love is the best kind of living.
My Life.
For all of the hard times which help me become a better person and teach me things I need to learn, for all of the good times that make all the hard times worth it. For having more blessings and things to be thankful for than I can count. For all of the talents I have been gifted with that I can use to fulfill God's purpose for my life and bring glory to Him. 
For exciting opportunities and fun adventures and things to do and see. 
I'm thankful for it all.


What are you thankful for?

Black Friday= Free Shipping!


Some new items (finally) up in the shop today! 
With more being added by the hour.
And in honor of Black Friday, I will be offering free shipping all day Friday.
So save some money and get a head start on those Christmas presents.
To redeem, enter: BLACKFRIDAY in the coupon code box at the end of your order!

And don't forget that a percentage of all proceeds go to The A21 Campaign

Thank you to my lovely friend Jackie for modeling

20

Today I turned 20 years old.

I'm sitting here in a coffee shop alternately journaling, sipping a gingerbread latte (my first, can I say scrumptious??), listening to Christmas music, typing and feeling so very loved and blessed.
Downright happy actually (incandescently so).
Birthday's are such marvelous things for making you feel loved.

It's such an odd feeling. Being 20. Of course I've had all of 7 hours for it to sink in but still. Going from 19 to 20 seems like a much bigger difference than going from 18 to 19.
I suppose it has something to do with having a whole new number in front of my age.
That big 2 is intimidating.
For a whole decade I got used to nice, simple, little old 1.
In retrospect you'd think ages 3-9 would have been equally, if not more so, intimidating. Being significantly more than both 1 and 2. But they were always alone. They never had a little friend to accompany them.
And then of course just being altogether done with my "teens" is kind of scary. Not to mention I can now say I'm "in my 20's" (which, even though I'm in the first year of them, I can still accurately say).
Every year I feel like I'll never get used to my new age. Not feeling quite at home in it at first. But within a short amount of time, usually only a few days, it becomes comfortable and I can't imagine being anything else other than that age.
Isn't that funny?
How quickly the unnatural feels natural?
It's already starting to feel not so weird. The more I talk about it.
I suppose that's how age works though.
I'm sitting here feeling all insightful and brilliant, (which tends to happen when I write more than a paragraph, and is almost always a sign that I am in fact not being insightful or brilliant. However I'm going to go on thinking that just the same if you don't mind. This is all for my own amusement anyway) thinking about all these things. Life and what not. I've lived a pretty good one so far. I am very blessed in so many ways and it's really quite overwhelming sometimes knowing how much I have and alternately how little others have sometimes. Which is God's way of reminding me not to take things for granted and to be more giving, selfless and loving I think.
(And also not to thrift so much... because, really, how many dresses does one girl need?)
But regardless, I do have my downs. My terrible, horrible, no good, very bad days. But it's because of all my blessings, and loved ones that make those days not so very terrible. And for that I'm thankful.

And so in honor of this day I have a list of 20 things I intend to do this upcoming year of my life. I have seen some other bloggers do this and I love the idea. So here they are. In no particular order, of no particular importance other than to resolve to do some fun and enjoyable things while I'm 20.

20 Things To Do While I'm 20

1. Travel to another country (I've only been to the Caribbean)
2. Watch all of Audrey Hepburn's movies
3. Be more purposeful about my time with God
4. Ride on a train
5. Visit at least 5 new states
6. Read Judy Garland's biography
7. Go to ten new Richmond restaurants 
8. Go dancing at a club (Can you believe I've never done this?)
9. Learn spanish
10. Take a segway tour of Richmond
11. Read 20 books
12. Learn how to cook (Anything whatsoever would be an improvement from what I can do now. Which is nothing)
13. Be a part of RVA Fashion Week
14. Get something published in a newspaper or magazine
15. Make mexican white sauce (successfully)
16. Donate a minimum of $500 to The A21 Campaign
17. Get a new camera
18. Update Etsy at least twice a month
19. Make a pin hole camera         
20. See Justin Bieber in concert

And now I'm off to continue the rest of the days celebrations! Thanks so much to everyone so far who has made my day special and making my 20th the best Birthday so far. The kind words, cards, texts, voicemails, presents, wall posts and emails mean more than you know. <3

The Limited Grand Opening: Interview and Giveaway!

A few weeks ago, I had the opportunity to be one of the local fashion bloggers to cover The Limited's grand opening in Short Pump. It was so much fun, I had a blast! Everyone was so nice, and I met some really cool people. The Limited has 230 stores nationwide, with 11 in Virginia. Founded in 1963, they believe "in making clothes that let you walk out the door each day with confidence."
The look and decor of the new store is inspired by the new direction of the brand, which is described as; "More feminine, more approachable and more residential in feel," according to Linda Heasley, CEO of the company.
Some features of the new store include an e-bar with instant access to thelimited.com, from which online orders can be placed and shipped to your home with free shipping.
Also a nice seating area with books and magazines for shopping companions.
And in the fitting rooms they have white boards to write your name on, which personalizes your shopping experience! Isn't that neat?
A portion of the weekend's sales went to the YWCA, the oldest and largest multicultural women's organization in the world.
I also had the opportunity to interview the CEO of The Limited, Linda Heasley!


love your travel collection, and the fact that it's wrinkle resistant and machine washable is amazing!

And people don't understand that, but I think it's so great, because when I'm on the road and in a hotel - and you can't ever trust the dry cleaners now - you can just tell them to launder it. And it gets better with every washing. And it's environmentally friendly if you're not dry cleaning it, so I think it's great. We've brought it back by popular demand, and this is a better suit than what we had before. The wool is a better quality wool, it's less scratchy. But if you can help us spread the word about it, that would be great! It really is very wrinkle resistant. I travel with a lot of the clothes here. I'll be on the road for two weeks straight, and they're really strong and easy-care clothing. But it has to look fashionable at the same time. People are on the go all the time so we try to make it easy for them. Most of our stuff is machine washable.

Who is The Limited girl? What kind of woman are you targeting?

First we have the 25 to 35 year old. She would be a teacher, or working at a creative agency or as a lawyer. So the line is inspired by women that are in that whole spectrum of whatever they do, giving her a very versatile appropriate look all the time. And we really stress versatile, because at the end of the day it just really is great sports wear. You can mix it up, and what we know for a fact is that she appreciates fashion. She's old enough to appreciate fashion, and she's old enough to appreciate how she puts a look together, which speaks volumes for her in her environment, as well as getting on to the next level. And she'll spend money on it, which is good.
And we call that girl Tyler Monroe. We've given her a whole persona. She grew up in Chicago, and she is in a creative field. So a lot of the line is inspired by her. 

We also have an 18-25 year old who is typically introduced to us by her mother, and is getting ready for the first important interview. Her mother gets concerned that her daughter is going to wear something inappropriate to it, so she'll bring her to us. And I love this young women, because she says, "My mother says I need a suit but I don't want it to be my Mother's suit," and so we give her something more like what I have on, which is something more broken up, something black and has a little fun edge to it. We call her Amanda.

And then we also have another girl, who is the customer that is 30 plus, who used to be that Tyler Monroe girl, but now she's gotten either married or is in a relationship. She's starting to have children, so clothes are still important to her, but she has other things that are important also, like having a house and going on in the next level of her career, or balancing and juggling family and work life-type things. We call her Meagan. But she still thinks of herself as being that 25-30 year old girl, and she doesn't want to be stuffy, she doesn't want to be matronly. She wants to keep it young and fun, but she also wants to keep it appropriate.

So those are the muses behind the line. We can't be everything to everybody, so I would say that Tyler, that 25-30 year old is the one that really guides us. But there's a halo effect, and we pick up these other two segments as well.


I love how you have them all named, and they have personalities. It makes it more personalized!
Yes, It makes it more personalized for the customer, and it keeps it current. And it keeps opinions of merchant designers out of the equation, because it's very easy for me to say, "I might like this more." But I have to think, "Would Tyler like that?" So we want to make it not about us. It's really about our customer, and trying to keep that first and foremost.  I think that's something we try to do the most at The Limited, it's really about our customer. And it's not just about selling her clothes. We really hope that we'd be selling her confidence, and a look that is giving her confidence to do whatever she's doing, and look great every step of the way.
When you feel great, you are great, and that's what we try to do.

I love that. How long have you been with the company?
Since January 2007, and the CEO since August 2007.

What's your favorite part about your job?
The people. And the people for me are the customers, who I love. I love talking to my customers, and I love talking to my associates. I get so energized hearing about them and what they're doing. They inspire me all the time. And then retail is always changing, which is also fun. No day is the same. So that too is fun.

Why do you think that fashion is important to incorporate in life? Why do you think women should take the time to enjoy fashion and dress for themselves, and not just for functional life?
Because i think it gets back to: when we feel good, nothing's impossible. I really believe we can have fun with it. It can be seen as being frivolous, but I also believe very strongly - and I've seen it so many times - when we help someone put a look together, they come out of the fitting room and they twirl and they stand a little taller and you can see the transformation. And that's what I would say it's really about, it's not just about selling the clothes. Our brand positioning is your personal success, and we believe women define that individually, and personally, and differently, and for us its about helping her be successful. But it's however she chooses to define that. And we know that when she looks great, she'll feel great, and that's really what that fashion message is about. We're a brand that celebrates women. We believe all women work, no matter what they're doing. They can be a stay-at-home mom, they can be a teacher, they can be a lawyer, they can be anything. But they should always feel confident and feel great.

What is your advice to people who are trying to create a name for themselves, and who are coming up in the fashion industry, or any business, who have ambitions and want to get into that world?
What I learned in my career, was that when I was too specific about what I wanted to do, I cut myself off from opportunities. I would tell you to explore a lot of different opportunities, and be as focused on getting experience as getting to the next level, because it's from that breath of experience that I learned the most. In terms of this business, I think retail, and being in retail, and learning how to deal with customers, and finding out what they like, and learning how to put outfits together in the fashion side, is a critical step. Then for some positions like technical design or design, you do need to have some formal training as well. But find people that inspire you, and really shadow them. Ask them to mentor you, because you can really learn a lot about how they got to where they are, and also learn about how to be even better. You learn from what they do, to get better at what you do. But again, I'd say be open to the opportunities. I've been trying to speak at different schools saying, "You should think about a career in retail." I mean I know I was never thinking about being in retail, but look what happened! And originally, when I was asked to go into The Limited, I turned it down. I said, "If The Limited disappeared tomorrow, who would care?" At the time the brand was losing money, they had a whole bunch of people going through the brand, but when I started doing the research and started finding out what else was out there, I realized there was a real opportunity here. But I could have been really stupid about it, so be open to opportunities. 

Overall my experience was really great and I loved the attention to detail, the very helpful and genuine customer service and the personalized shopping. I will definitely be a returning shopper!

Larissa creator of From the Runway to RVA
Linda with Brian McDaniel of Dirty Richmond
Kat Simons of Lite 98

And last, but not least, I am offering a giveaway for a one $25 gift card to The Limited so you can go and experience the new store (or a store near you) for yourself! Here are the rules on how to enter:


To Enter: 
Leave ONE comment and include all of your entries 

-Leave a comment about what you would buy if you won the gift card or how you would use it!
-Follow my blog!

Additional chances to win:

-Facebook about this giveaway
-Blog about this giveaway
-Tweet about this giveaway
-Like Leney Breeden Photography on Facebook
-Add my Etsy Shop to your favorites

WINNER WILL BE ANNOUNCED DECEMBER 5TH!



Check out more photos of the event here.

You've Got Mail

I received my first Birthday card today!
I love mail, and I love Birthday cards. So getting a Birthday card in the mail is just double awesome.

Also I've finally gotten around to making some tags for my handmade things! I feel so legit.
What do you think of them?
I'm hoping to get more items up in the shop by Black Friday and offering a free shipping deal on purchases made that weekend! 
So look out for more details on that coming soon.